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The Box people vs The Convertible people
The first thing you notice when you come back to Japan after a holiday is that no one talks to anyone. Everyone's existence is denied. Take today for instance : I was at the local take out deli and was waiting to get a serving of salad from the self service bar. There was a girl by my side and she was deciding what to get. I had already decided and made this clear by standing next to her and leaning towards my decision - the broccoli and prawn salad. I leaned and leaned and glanced at her but she didn't acknowledge my presence. In the end she just walked away still unaware of me. This is a common occurence in Japan. People walk alone, live alone and only awake when amongst friends. I would add family, but they don't even talk to them so...Maybe that's a bit cynicle. This will probably be my downfall in Japan. I'm not a big talker but I love smalltalk and casual conversations. And here there is none of that. Sometimes it happens but this is rare.
Oooh, ate my broccoli a bit too fast!
In LA when we were waiting for the locksmith to come, a lady passed us and smiled. I said hello and she said hello. That's the way to live, I think. We're not alone. We're always at home with friends...
I bought satsuma oil when in LA. Now that's the way to live: Burning satsuma oil.
I bought lots of Twinkies while in LA. Now I have a toothache: That's not the way to live.
Next Monday in LA the temperature is 21 C. Now that's nice. We'll be leaving Sunday night!
Now holidays are a tricky affair. They can cause as much heartache as joy. It's a balancing act.
Remember it, but don't long for it.
Easier said than done though. If only they'd get rid of those palm trees, blue skies, open roads, beaches, shops, chocolate bars, friendly people, laid back vibe, I wouldn't long for it! Bastards!
posted by PA on Wednesday, March 02, 2005
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